{"id":1223,"date":"2025-03-02T09:05:18","date_gmt":"2025-03-02T14:05:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mrfitz.com\/blog\/?p=1223"},"modified":"2025-03-02T09:05:19","modified_gmt":"2025-03-02T14:05:19","slug":"do-it-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mrfitz.com\/blog\/do-it-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Do It Yourself&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>What are you here to learn?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you do your own writing,&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You learn who you are&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And what you stand for&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And what you stand against&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And what you love&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And what you makes you feel alive.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you have someone or something write for you,&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You learn to lie.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You learn to cheat.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And you lose all its benefits.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(See above.)&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you do your own reading,&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You drink in ideas, experiences, characters, stories.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You feel them down to the roots of your hair,&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And in the goosebumps you get&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When the words are magic.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You inhale the sounds and&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Patterns and&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Qualities of great writing&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To emulate in your own writing.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You are molded as a person by what you read&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By what moves you&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And by what you refuse to be moved by.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Reading gives you life experiences&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That can\u2019t be had in real life&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And life lessons without the pain&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Of living them.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Reading deepens you,&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Teaches you how to be a better human.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But when you only pretend to read,&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you read the summaries&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And jot down pretend-notes,&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>All you learn is to cheat.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You lose all the benefits of reading.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(See above.)&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I listen as you sit discussing&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What you were supposed to have read&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And wonder how much of your talk is real&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And how much of it is just so much&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Excrement.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You go through the motions&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But none of it means anything.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>All you are learning is how to fling B.S.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Back and forth.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you view learning as transactional,&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You turn in counterfeit product&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To get a grade&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To get a credential someday&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To get on to the next thing,&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It may seem like a bargain&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To get something for nothing.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>All the result, none of the effort.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But in the end,&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You get a hollow reward.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You become, by counterfeiting,&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A counterfeit person.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A fraud.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A liar.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A cheat.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A surface person.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>All show, no substance.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A Sedgewick Bell.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Education has made it all transactional&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When maybe it should be transformational.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It isn\u2019t really supposed to be about&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Points and grades and GPAs.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Learning isn\u2019t just ticking off the boxes.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Learning should deepen you,&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Take you outside your comfort zone,&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Make you more human.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>More yourself.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anyone can cheat.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Only you can write your words.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Only you can meet an author&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On the pages&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And have an interaction&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Between just you two.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No one else can do it.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you don\u2019t do it,&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No one else in the entire universe&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Can have that interaction.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It will never exist.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you cheat,&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you cynically think it doesn\u2019t matter,&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You are murdering the learning&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That might have transformed you&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And the person you might have become&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Will never exist.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What are you here to learn?&nbsp; 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